We try a lot but fail to understand that to get what we want, we face a lot of resistances: both internal and external. The external resistance includes distractions which can be manipulated and worked through, but the internal resistance which is when we lose hope and lower our confidence, that proves to be our biggest hindrance. The most important goal for self accomplishment is that, we should not allow internal resistance come in the way of what we want.
The bigger the wall the higher it's character.
Many motivational speakers promise the way of getting what we want is right within us, it's right in front of us.
It can be achieved through:
- Confidence: It's the underlying factor behind anything. It influences our motivation to do the task and also how we'll do that task.
- Proper planning: To achieve what you want, you can do a proper planning, plan out a strategy of how you'll do the task and how you'll implement it.
- Perseverance: We have to be persistent in doing the things we really want, we should strive hard to achieve the success despite the difficulty or delay.
These are only a few mantras for getting things you want, but there are few more techniques which will help you achieve what your heart and soul desires. Follow these simple yet achievable techniques to master the art of getting what you want with confidence.
1. Figure out exactly what you want
First,
you need to figure out exactly what you want and never beat around the
bush. Ask yourself what makes you really happy and what you want out of
your life.
2. Don't get too comfortable in your own reality
Often
times, our biggest hurdle to getting what we want and achieving a
breakthrough is comfort and convenience. As humans, we are creatures of
habit and our brain likes to keep us safe from all types of risk. It is easy
to get into an everyday routine and operate on autopilot. Our habits and
thoughts follow suit which leads to the same actions that we've always
done along with the same results showing up.
3. Set goals you want to achieve
When you set the goals you want to achieve, be realistic about it and as you set up the goal, work on it, strive for it and achieve it.
4. Try out a different path
While walking on the same path everyday, you would arrive at the same place. If you're unable to achieve your goal, it's time to look back and change your path. Take a different route to reach your milestone. Change your approach, life may surprise you.
Do not let complaining and excuses be a part of your journey towards achieving what you want. Stop procrastination and work towards achieving your ambitions, goals and desires. If you try out the techniques mentioned above, working towards getting what you want will be a piece of cake for you to achieve.